Divorce the easy way out

?Jump to Last Post 1 9 of 9 discussions (15 posts)With an increasing number of married couples ending in divorce Do you think that divorce is a too easy way out and that a couple should work harder to make their relationship work?No marriage is perfect and couples have to work hard and be willing to make canada goose womens outlet compromises to make a marriage work. These days I think that Western couples generally don’t work hard enough to stay together unlike in the past.I agree.Actually, stricter guidelines have been gradually put in place in recent years, from what I canada goose shop uk hear. Especially for couples who have children together. I believe they’re now being required to take canada goose outlet online store review months of family counseling, etc., and an increased waiting period for divorce finality is imposed.There were some very lax rules, some of which may still be in place. The rule of claiming “incompatibility” after years of marriage is part of the “easy way out”. Even though it’s true that it might take years to actually get to know someone if they deceive you, etc., and people can cheat even after years of marriage, etc.But those situations also were resolved by being ruled upon via the distribution of assets, etc., and even child custody rules.Also, the “common law marriage” that many states had (and have?)in effect, played a role in the devaluation of marriage.I think one of www.canadagoosecanadaoutlet.com the worst attacks against marriage was probably the “women’s rights movement” which went way too far and has even moved into the mode where a woman can abort a man’s child without his knowledge or consent, etc.Of course THE worst attack so far is the homosexual agenda movement.There are too many divorces given out from hurt feelings, tired of the person, etc.The “incompatible reasoning” is a joke. Why did that person even marry for then? You should know the person Before you marry.Not marry just for hot sex, money or their job title or even pressure from family or friends which I have canada goose outlet montreal known some to do and then end up in a divorce.Marriage should not be taken lightly. It is a serious life long (should be) situation. And when Kids are involved it hurts them more than it does the person divorcing.klarawieckposted 8 years agoI think that the problem is not that couples get a divorce, it’s the fact that they hurt each other and the children while separating. We canada goose outlet belgium always try to hold on to things and forget that by natural law, the only constant is change. People change, relationships change, feelings change, priorities change. Divorce is an option in many cases. As long as a person tries to cling on to another, there will be a BAD separation that will affect everyone. Nothing lasts forever and that’s why we should learn to live in the RIGHT NOW and learn to LET GO when the time to end and begin again comes along.wychicposted 8 years agoWhile I agree that some people do use it as an easy out, I don’t think the rules should be made more stringent. If two people don’t want to be married anymore, it’s their own business WHY they don’t want to be married and not for the law or anyone else to say whether their reasons are good enough. Anyone who tries to prove psychological abuse in a court of law can easily be made to look like a nutcase because no one else can truly understand how one person can be controlled, or how many minor events can build up to a very big problem. He was very good at knowing just how far he could push it before it would be over the line enough for me to leave. He got careless in his infidelity and no, I wasn’t going to try to work it out, because trust was the only thing I had left for him. It was good timing, considering his girlfriend got pregnant shortly thereafter and it would have been a lot harder blow canada goose outlet to find out about that at the same time as the cheating. Very few people I know found divorce to be easy in any way, it is a very messy and trying process. I can say that now that it’s done I’m very glad to have done it, and my son has benefited from it by having two happy homes to live in instead of one miserable one.That said, canada goose outlet uk I do believe that there are a lot of marriages that go by the wayside because people get bored, hit hard times and don’t want to canada goose outlet ottawa work it out, or otherwise give up on a good relationship. However, canada goose outlet real the government cannot legislate morality, and they cannot make the call about what is a “good” relationship and what is a “bad” relationship.Diane Insideposted 8 years agoYes I agree divorce is an easy way out. canada goose outlet near me And many people go into marriage with the mindset that if it doesn’t work out they can just get divorced.Wychic, I understand about the abuse though, and that is the exception for me. Of course if abuse or infedelity is the issue then I absolutely think divorce should be granted.However, there are probably far more divorces that happen just because people don’t want to work anything out. Or they just get bored or feel that they have grown apart, etc.

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Diane Insideposted 8 years agoYes I agree divorce is an easy

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