When should mom step in

Teen Dating:?Jump to Last Post 1 4 of 4 discussions (9 posts)My son who is 15 years old, has a girlfriend, she’s 15 as well, that he’s been seeing for 8 months or so. I never really cared for her, like most moms. But I think my situation is a little different. I recently learn that she has some ‘issues.’ [That’s me putting it lightly and I do know exactly what is going on] I don’t think it’s healthy for them to be together right now. I also think a break canada goose outlet store quebec up is needed for her to get the help she needs and for him to get back focused on the things that make him happy.Both of them have also been pushing the limits at my house. About a week ago they were caught in his bed under the covers together. He was told she couldn’t be in his room and they both goose outlet canada still did it. She knows too, I’ve said it to both of them, and I have a rule of both feet on the ground in my house that both of them are aware of. Also, I’m not canada goose outlet price trying to be grandma anytime soon and I was a teen mom. I don’t want to see either of them struggle like I did. Since this happened we said that she couldn’t canada goose outlet winnipeg address come over here anymore. Do you think we were wrong in ‘banning’ her from the house?My son is involved in school activities and has a band outside of school too. Lately, he is showing a loss of interest in his activities and doesn’t want to do anything with the family anymore, he would rather stay at home. I’ve even invited her to go with us and he always finds some reason for them not to go or she just doesn’t like what we’re doing. He used to practice with his band almost every weekend and they haven’t had practice in over a month. I noticed the delcine in his interest before they were caught in the bed.I have also tried numerous approaches to my son with https://www.thecanadagooseoutlet.com this situation. I’ve been understanding, we communicate greatly, and haven’t been mean asides the ‘banning’ thing. I don’t know what else to do. Do I ride it out and hope it self destructs on its own? Or do I step in, in a creative way, to initiate a break up?This was orginally asked in the ‘Questions’ but moved here by the advice of HP. Thanks HP for bringing to my attention the difference I totally agree it should be here in the forum after reading the few answers from hubbers last canada goose outlet michigan night.I have to say one more thing because of one of the answers I read before the question was removed. A hubber asked me if I tried to get to know this girl before I judged her. I feel like I did, as much as I need to know. And stating she has issues is not a judgement, it is a fact because of all I know. Besides that they’re 15 years old for crying outloud! No one can make me think this girl will be his wife one day. He’s too young for me to look it at that way at this time. If it happens, it happens, and I’ll accept it when they are adults. But not right now. This same hubber wrote that I should take the time to find out what’s going on with her and help her. To that I say I already know, and this girl has her own parents and they are dealing with the situation by getting her help.Oh, and I also am aware saying anything about a break up will back fire on me. A frank discussion would be fitting no beating around the bush about sex etc. they are 15 and my take on it is if they are sexually active they should be able to discuss it canada goose outlet in canada and take canada goose outlet jackets precautions; however, since they canada goose outlet new york city are young following up about protection is important and following up with a few discussions around their choices/decisions to ensure they make good ones.they could be feeling ‘in luv’ and trying to break them up could backfire and cause more problems it’s been 8 months that’s a long time for a 15 year old.i’ve been there a lot of what i’ve said above really depends on your relationship with your son years before and now. I’ve had previous conversations with him but after reading your post I think I need to be more detailed. You’re right if they are practicing it they are old enough to know everything about it.I am sort of in touch with the parents but there’s a little bit of a language barrier that makes it difficult. I guess I could work on that as well.Thanks for your suggestions.thooghunposted 7 years agoAny attempt to “curb their curiosity” will only enrichen their drive towards experience. It’s not one of the things a parent can fully control. Nor, unless patently unhealthy, should they (in my opinion).While it’s natural for parents to want to shield their children from hurt, it is also through hurt that real life long lessons are learnt and while he is young, it’s a lesson that canada goose outlet hes going to have to learn soon enough anyway. I would keep an eye out but ultimately sit on the rails (again, unless it becomes overtly unhealthy at which point I would put the foot down).I agree that any attempts curb their curiosity will back fire and that it’s out of my hands.I do see the whole situation as a learning experience for him. But I didn’t learn about all the canada goose parka outlet uk mental disorders out there until I was an adult. I don’t think at 15 I could comprehend all the different disorders, symptoms, and coping with someone that had one.I’ve been keeping an eye on the situation and I’m lost as when to step in. When is it time to say enough? How far do I let it go? He used to be in 2 bands this year and says because he doesn’t have enough time for her he quit one of them. I’ve seen him sad and cry because he said, that she said, “You don’t try hard enough to see me.” Whether that’s true or not who knows, but if it’s true,I don’t think that is fair. He has his school activities that he has to go to and his band after school practices to perform at local venues. He can’t take the blame for that alone. They both should try.

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